For as
long as I can remember I have been fascinated by old things – antiques, books, jewellery,
newspapers, letters and clothes from a bygone era. I’m not really sure why, but I’m always drawn
to them and modern items never seem to affect me the same way. While I can see that modern architecture and décor
can be attractive, I would hate to have to live in a newly
built house for example. And minimalist
chic and clean lines leave me cold – to me they look sterile and unwelcome,
instead of warm and inviting. I want
old, worn and with unexpected twists and turns or nooks and crannies. Perhaps that explains why I write historicals!
Looking
back, I was probably influenced by my grandmother who had a flat full of
furniture and bric-a-brac she’d inherited from various ancestors. I spent a lot of time with her and she told
me stories about each item – who had owned them and where they came from. The fact that they had a history made them
seem more precious somehow (and it was a great way of remembering the family
tree too). And while my parents visited the
newly opened IKEA store (yes, I’m that old – we used to regularly go to the
very first IKEA store ever opened in southern Sweden), I was admiring my gran’s
Rococo style sofa with its ornate feet and green silk damask upholstery. I couldn’t understand how anyone could prefer
ugly, square settees to something so pretty!
Rather
than hankering after new sets of duvet covers, I asked my gran to make me
traditional sheets, complete with handmade lace edgings and embroidered
initials. And I badgered my mother into
giving me her “bridal chest”, a large oak chest for storing linen and other
things I might need once I married. A
very old-fashioned notion that really appealed to me, but which now seems lost. These days couples who are getting married
just go to the nearest department store and make a list of what they want, they
don’t save up for years beforehand just in case. I never told my friends about this as they
probably would have thought I was weird, but I carried on hoarding – sheets,
table cloths, towels, napkins, all old or made the traditional way. I still have them all. And porcelain, lots of it!
So what
is it about old things that fascinates some of us so much? After all, they are really just second hand
furniture and objects that are often used, damaged or at least a little “tired”. To me, it somehow feels as though they were
made with more care and perhaps even love.
It took a lot of effort to create them without the use of modern
machinery and it also made each piece individual, different from anything
else. They give the impression of
comfort and warmth, and a house furnished with antiques feels loved and lived
in. Maybe it’s just me being fanciful,
but I feel a link with people in the past by using and caring for the same
things as they did. Owning my
great-great-aunt’s sewing box gives me a connection with her and every time I
open it, I think of her.
My
children think I’m taking things to extremes by striving for a so called “shabby
chic” look in our home, even going so far as to take lessons in how to use
various paint effects to make furniture look old. But I enjoyed this so much, I’m now eyeing up
everything in the house wondering how to “improve” them. To each his own, I suppose, and if I can’t
convert my children into antique-lovers, I’ll just have to try with the next generation
when it (hopefully) comes along!
As fans of historical fiction, do you all love old things too? I'd love to know!
Christina
12 comments:
That's one reason I make and fill doll's houses. I can have them exactly how I want them!
I definitely prefer old to new. Not to the extent of distressing things so they will look old, though! Like you, I've felt like this since I was a child, although in my case I think it might have been due to my reading and love of history. Now, it's a combination of liking certain styles as well as loving the fact that each object has its own history, even if I don't know it. For furniture, Regency is my favourite (unfortunately, given its cost).
I love doll's houses too, Lynne, and I have one I inherited from my mum. You're right, it's lovely to furnish them exactly the way you want to!
Helena - glad it's not just me! And yes, the cost can be a stumbling block, but sometimes you can be lucky and find things at a reasonable price at auctions. At the moment I'm into heavy Victorian furniture, which isn't to everyone's taste, so I can actually afford some of it!
Oh, how I sympathize, Christina! My house is definitely shabby chic - rather more shabby than chic, I fear.
And I do love the original Barbosa covers for Georgette Heyer's novels in your top photo. They are just right!
Thank you, Elizabeth! I don't mind how shabby, it's still 'chic' to me. And I prefer 'well loved' to the word shabby anyway :-)
And yes, the original GH covers are lovely, aren't they?
I'm all in favour of the antique and the used. Far more romantic (and I find I can get away with less dusting too!)
Oh, yes, yes, yes! I have kept most of my parents' books as well as my own - and I have some of those lovely GH covers. I'm more shabby than chic, too,and I've done a bit of the distressing (improving). Sons gave me complete Winnie-the-Pooh (still have originals, even shabbier) and two Rupert Annuals to add to my collection. I think Nostalgia Rules OK in my house.
Oh, I hate new sterile lines. I have a houseful of old furniture passed down from one family member or another.
I have lots of old GH books too!
Definitely old. You can sense the history, especially with places - a new town or Stonehenge? There's no contest. Admittedly, there are times I'd choose a new shopping centre, mind.
Christina, you're a woman after my own heart! I love nothing more than a rummage for old china or old books in a junk or antique shop. And it's fatal if I allow myself to go onto ebay. I'm just as happy looking as buying though it's fun to find a bargain.
I lived for 37 years in a 400 year old cottage - now thrilled to be in a modern, warm, convenient house - but do miss the peace and the birds.
I also have a large collection of old books - including Enid Blyton etc from my childhood.
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